Mes: febrero 2021

Joseph spent his life in Nazareth, a small Jewish village; in it, everyone was well known in the community because of his job as craftsman, farmer or because his religious and social commitments. Joseph, as well as all the young people of his time, lived his process of formation, growth and maturity that led him to realize his project of life and the fullness of love, according to the law and traditions of his Jewish culture.

God, in his inscrutable designs, since the beginning had chosen Joseph for a great mission: to be Mary’s husband and Jesus’ father during his earthly life. Therefore, endowed with faculties and special graces to fulfill his mission, he took his part in the salvation economy.

The celebration of the year of saint Joseph is a gift of the Spirit for us, Capuchin Tertiary Sisters of the Holy Family. This great Saint is a distinguished source of inspiration and a reference point that may help us to live our spirituality and charism. That is why we would like to consider some aspects of his life as an illumination for our challenges.

1. A defender and guardian of life

A crucial situation put Joseph to the test. Being engaged to Mary, a chaste young woman of deep faith, one day he came to know that she was pregnant and, in order to protect her from a shameful scandal, he planned to secretly disown her. However, after the announcement in a dream, the angel told him to “not be afraid to take Mary as his wife to his house” (Mt 1: 18-21). With the courage of a man, he accepted his mission and trusting in God he took the challenging path of faith, received and embraced Mary as his wife and, in her, the Son that she was carrying in her womb.

In another moment, the angel of the Lord revealed to Joseph the dangers threatening Jesus and Mary that were forcing them to flee to Egypt and, later, to settle in Nazareth. With discretion, humility, tenderness, fidelity and a fruitful dedication, he lived the mystery of these happenings. In silence, he suffered exclusion and persecution, he emigrated to a foreign land and, although he did not understand, he always lived according to God’s plan and, with an attitude of prayerful listening, he gave a prompt and assertive response to the different circumstances since the betrothal to the episode of Jesus in the Jerusalem Temple when he was twelve years old.

Therefore, Joseph is a reference for us in our commitment of life.

To defend, with prophetic attitude, life in all its forms, promoting the care and conservation of the «common home». To be bearers of peace and hope to the suffering brought about by violence in its different forms, situations of exclusion and the denial of human dignity.

(Cf. Final document XXII General Chapter – 1.3. Renewal actions)

2. A father who safeguards his identity integrating the reality of the daily life

When we talk about Joseph’s life in Nazareth, we talk about a normal life and of a person that accepts the history, culture, family and relationships and we discover that fidelity to daily life is fidelity to God consisting in living in the common anonymity like most of his town people, searching out what God likes, making projects and renouncing to them, always looking for God´s project and learning how to read the signs of the Kingdom in the world.

We acknowledge that Joseph was a religious man of prayer and faithful observer of God’s precepts; he initiated his son Jesus in the piety and in the religious traditions of his people. Joseph, protector of his family, discovered, by his spiritual strength, greatness of heart and intuitive capacity, the great secret of God present in each member of the family of Nazareth and the mystery of the eternal Father in their lives. Joseph, a man of fruitful silence, entered into the dynamics of contemplation and assumed with patience, amazement and respect the provident plans coming from above and became a docile instrument of God’s will.

This divine human aspect that we perceive in Joseph is a priority in our being Capuchin Tertiary Sisters; to discover that fidelity to the daily life is fidelity to God who likes us to be presence of his Kingdom. We are called to contemplate God being open to the newness of each day, to discover Him and to be his witnesses to Him through our own life, in fraternity, people, environment, creation (cf. Const. 42).

3. Protector of the family

• Joseph was entrusted the care of the Holy Family in order to carry on God’s plan for it. In his family life he acted as a kind, tender, obedient husband and a father; he propitiated in his family the communion through love, mutual help, learning, surprises and family concerns, like in any other family of his time, not only within it but also projecting his experience to his fellow countrymen. “Once they fulfilled all that the Lord’s law ordered, they went back to Galilee, to their town of Nazareth. The child was growing, developing and becoming wiser every day; and the grace of God was with him”(Lk 2,39-40).

 In the same way, we, Capuchin Tertiary Sisters of the Holy Family, through our name, have received the legacy of apostolic work with the family and “to know and accompany the different situations and realities of the family in the environment of our mission. (Cf. Const. 61) is a priority for us.

May Saint Joseph teach and accompany us our in our response to the different demands of the mission entrusted us by Father Luis Amigó and much more now, when life confronts us in face of our society´s vulnerability and imbalance in which we are immersed.

Hna. María Elena Lopera Sierra, TC

Each year, on February 11, the Church celebrates the World Day of the Sick, instituted by Pope John Paul II in 1992. There is an evident coincidence of this date with the liturgical memoria of Our Lady of Lourdes, whom the Catholic tradition venerates as mediator of graces and also of healing miracles. Every year, on this day, the Pope addresses a message not only to Christians but to the whole world and proposes a reflection in order to revive man’s sensibility to the world of suffering and disease.

This year, the Pope’s Message for the Day of the Sick, whose theme is “A trust-based relationship to guide care for the sick” highlights the importance of personal relationships among the sick people, their family and the medical staff, because they allow them to live the experience of the disease without experimenting loneliness and abandon. On the other hand, reflecting about the meaning of suffering, the Pope refers to Job, the biblical character touched by pain in his own flesh and in his own spirit, and he underlines that, despite the abandonment and misunderstanding he suffered and the screams of anguish he lifted  to God, he realized that He had been present throughout his whole experience of pain and, once restored his health and lost goods,  he opened before him a “new horizon” of life.

Human nature cannot perceive God’s presence in pain and death. Christian religion that has permeated cultures and traditions throughout the world presents God as a good father and, although the passion, death and resurrection of Christ have revealed the salvific dimension of pain, Christian people also are reluctant to assume that God allows innocent suffering, premature death, violence and everything that endangers life. Threatened and crushed by suffering, the believer also may turn to God invoking his help and deliverance from evil, but also by shouting in anger and, even, turning away from Him.

Followers of other religions live the pain experience according to their own convictions. Some manage to maintain a passive and resigned attitude or to draw from their body and soul the positive energies that can contrast the negative ones that cause them pain, but certainly, whatever be the religious belief, pain and death are hard experiences that make tears flowing on the faces of the sick people and of their loved ones.

Tears watered also the face of Jesus in front of the mystery of his friend Lazarus’ death (cf. Jn 11,32-36) and during his prayer in the Garden of Olives, tears mentioned also by the author of the letter to the Hebrews (cf. Heb 5,7); they were a manifestation of his full humanity, teaching us that the faith and trust in God, that the Son surely possessed in the highest degree, are not a kind of “anesthetics” that reduces or cancels human suffering, but that may help man to face pain supported by the certainty that God does not abandon him. This is the «new horizon» that faith opens before the man who suffers, and that Pope Francis mentions in his Message for the Day of the Sick of this year.

Physical and moral pain play a great role in the human and spiritual formation of the man, and history reveals that all those that we consider «great» have been tested in the «furnace» of pain (cf. Wis 3,6). The physical fragility due to illness, the inner darkness that reduces the life pleasure and all the situations leading man to re-dimension a too high perception of himself, contribute to relocate himself in his truth as a human being, a creature made of clay that only the breath of God makes «great» (cf. Gen 2,7). Pain breaks the clay pot that containing the spirit of the Creator, but it can never smother this same spirit that is able to strengthen weakness (cf. 1Cor 1,25) and clothes man with new life (cf. 2Cor 13.4).

God acts and renews man through pain. The Christian faith illuminates the pain mystery through the Word of God and the example of Christ but, quite often, people outside the Christian message also get strength in the experiences of suffering and discover something positive in the lack of health or in the limitation that affects their existence .

About that I remember a child that I met during my pilgrimage to Lourdes. The little boy, confined to a wheelchair, was praying in front of the Grotto and his mother was encouraging him to pray to the Virgin begging her to to give him back the possibility of walking, running and playing ball like his friends could do but, unexpectedly, the little boy, looking around himself  and seeing other children and adults lying on their beds, replied to his mother that he was going to tell the Virgin to help rather those sick people because, at least, he could play ball using his hands. This little boy, perhaps unconsciously, gave a great testimony of how God’s grace can redirect our demands towards what is truly essential and sustain along the experience of pain.

Regardless of our faith and human maturity, God is always present when we cross the river of suffering and, discreetly as He acts when he enters into relationship with his creatures, he holds us with his hand and does not allow us to sink into the sea of ​​pain and of death. In these circumstances, discovering his presence is a profound and regenerating experience, an injection of hope and strength embracing also those who lovely accompany the sick person in his suffering.

Unfortunately, our society tends to avoid the experience of pain and all that “recalls” the existence of suffering, that, anyway is inevitable for the human being and, that is worse, even dares to get rid of the pain, intervening violently with actions that may suppress life and are not morally correct.

In his Message, Pope Francis reminds that “a society is all the more human to the degree that it cares effectively for its most frail and suffering members, in a spirit of fraternal love”; he also says that «health is a primary common good», invites those who hold political and social responsibility to give priority to the investment of resources for the care of sick people and encourages everyone to walk towards this goal, making sure that no one is left alone, excluded or abandoned.

In agreement with the social encyclical “Fratelli tutti”, the World Day of the Sick celebrated this year, in the midst of the pandemic, encourages men of good will to strengthen attitudes of closeness to the most fragile people, being for them, as the Good Samaritan, «a very valuable balm, which provides support and comfort» and exhorts us to look up at God so that, like Job, we can discover his face manifested in the fragility of those who suffer. This will rekindle the strength and hope of a wounded humanity.

Sr. Cecilia Pasquini TC

On January the 14^th, the magazine “Vida Religiosa” published an article by Dolores Aleixandre, whose title was “Composure” that, probably, is not alien to us and can help us to think if we really live this same reality in our own person and in our communities. We have just celebrated the Day of Consecrated Life on February the 2^nd and we consider interesting to facilitate this reflection in our webpage. Let us fully live the mutual accompaniment we are working on in our «Growth and Transformation» Project; undoubtedly that will make easier for us the effort to intuit what is happening in the depth of the hearts of those who live by our side, beyond appearances, the fulfillment of norms and that «composure» about which the author refers. Below it is Dolores Aleixandre who speaks:

«I went with my community to a recollection day to elaborate the community project of the year and in the outskirts of the town where we were, there was a huge fallen aspen next to the road. Probably it had fallen the day before because its branches were still full of green leaves, although the trunk was hollow and the roots were exposed. This image came to my when I heard a comment about the departure of a young sister: «And her community was surprised, because they had noticed nothing that would suggest that she was in crisis». The association with the fallen tree seems obvious: this young religious looked like a hollow trunk that since it was not getting sap from its roots, had no consistency and collapsed. And so we think that there is nothing more to do.

Did we ask ourselves whether there were other possible but more uncomfortable explanations? We could ask ourselves, for example, if the empty trunk would not be her community, so myopic that it could not detect any alarm signal in one of its members.  Another possible variant: we should be able to detect in us the symptoms of that composure (today it would be the «posture») always lurking in consecrated life: an ability generated under the protection of structures that allows us to behave externally with correctness, according to «agreed codes» acquired habits, fulfilled schedules and a few stereotypical phrases. A plastic life, adapted and well organized  life the stretched ribbon marking the page of Vespers of the second week. And that is said «from the outside». But inside, perhaps a parallel world bustles: what we really think, feel and desire, hidden in the most secret part of the heart until the day when it «comes out of the closet» and others can see it. That is such a «usual» possibility that the New Testament uses the adjective dipsichós, «person of two minds», double, divided (James 1,8).

This threat is accentuated in the stage we are living, amid many processes of restructuration, fusions and readjustments we are carrying on. Immersed in this turmoil, an essential question arises: what is actually happening with the restructured, reconfigured, united, grouped, fused or re-justified subjects that we are? In all this process, the most important is that each one receive the sap of life and significance so necessary to live.

In Zacchaeus’ encounter with Jesus, we can discover a kind of double appears: «Lord, I will give to the poor half of my goods…». At the beginning of the year each one could ask himself what he is doing with that other reserved “half». Because, throughout our lives, we have surely been handing over keeping an edifying composure, half of what we are and we own but let us ask ourselves whether, there be any other “half” we still hide in the deepest of ourselves.

The presence of the Guest “sneaking” into our house, makes possible, for us, to confidently welcome the «agents of diminution» knocking at our door and getting down through our roof. As soon as we consent, they will undertake the task of clearing the corners where we take refuge, and they will urge us to hand over that “other half” we so eagerly try to retain.

Let us hope to decide throwing it out the window, together with it the remains of so much deceptive and silly composure ».

(Translated from: Dolores Aleixandre –  Magazine “Vida Religiosa”, 14 of january 2021)

Changes in Whatsapp this is what really happens with your data.  What will change about its new privacy terms and whom will affect?

 Actually, everything is quite simple, but the interest to attract your attention may cause, in certain web sites, some exaggerations and a little bit of confusion.

And because of that, I will try to explain you everything, including the WhatsApp changing aspects, what that means for its users, and why, if you live in Europe, you don’t have to worry about it. So, if that concerns you or you have any questions about this matter, your mind will keep quite.

Which are the changes in the new privacy policies

In 2014, Facebook bought WhatsApp for $ 16 billion. During the acquisition process, when it received the permits from the European Commission, Facebook ensured that it did not have a reliable and automatic way to link the WhatsApp and Facebook accounts of their users. However, once the operation was completed, they announced that they would begin to combine these data and because of that, the European Union accused them of providing misleading information.

Temporary WhatsApp messages: what they are, their limits and how to use them

The new privacy policy is a new step in this direction: the data of WhatsApp users will be shared with the other Facebook or Instagram services. This is a mandatory change and it means that its users must accept this condition if they want to continue using WhatsApp. If they don’t accept, they won’t be able to use the app.

But there is an important matter: this change does not apply to users belonging to the European Union. That is due to the European data protection regulation, (EU-GDPR) that forbids Facebook to share the WhatsApp data with other companies, to its own profit.

Therefore, if you live in Spain, France, Italy or any other country, member of the European Union, these changes will not affect you; even if you accept them, Facebook will not share your data with the rest of the applications of its company.

Sharing this data, Facebook aims to have more complete profiles of all its users, by unifying the information they provided (and also the information they not provide but it somehow collects) through all the applications belonging to a single profile. That will help WhatsApp to better target its advertising campaigns, to the personal likings of its users and so to earn more money through a more effective advertising.

Why that does not affect European countries?

As I have told you, in 2016 Facebook began to combine some data of its WhatsApp users, specifically their telephone numbers, with the rest of the companies. That prompted the authorities to initiate an investigation, and Facebook temporarily cancelled such a policy that, however, is still effective today.

In fact, WhatsApp has a kind of sub-company created only for European users, so that, here, users don’t have to share contents. The app used worldwide belongs to the company WhatsApp LLC, while in Europe it belongs to the company WhatsApp Ireland Limited. Since the companies are distinct, the conditions and agreements offered to European users are approved by the European Commission and are different from those offered in the rest of the world.

But what happens in America and other continents?

It is necessary to understand that data privacy is an issue that Europe has been working on during several years; sometimes we do not give the true importance to our data on internet and that cause a certain misunderstandings about the application.

First of all, the arrogance with our personal data and its daring in the way of using them (the company itself or its partners), is a legacy of Facebook’s habit. So it is not surprising that people put up that Facebook changed WhatsApp policies in a fraudulent way.

Second, people have understood that privacy policies are confused and they don’t really have the “power” to do something, obliging companies to collect less data.

Chats are still safe for everyone

One thing that should be clear for you is that Facebook cannot read what you write in your chats, so that, in no case and in no place, the conversations content will be sent to them. And it is so because WhatsApp uses what is known as end-to-end encryption.

Facebook cannot see the content of messages or phone calls because WhatsApp communications are encrypted. Facebook also says that it does not keep logs about people you contact through WhatsApp, and that WhatsApp contacts are not shared through Facebook.

WhatsApp has many positive aspects. It is easy to use and the communication is secure but it is true that WhatsApp is Facebook and we should remember that many people do not trust in Facebook.

There are alternatives apps, such as Telegram and Signal that recently have received a large number of new users.

It seems that the understanding of what happens with our digital data, require an advanced training in computer science and a law degree. And Facebook, a company owning a lot of money and a stock value of more than $ 700 billion, did not or could not explain what was happening in such a manner that people could understand it.

If you do not have a Facebook or Instagram account, your WhatsApp will continue working the same; perhaps in the future they will add some advertising on their platform, but if you live outside Europe, the new privacy policy will surely merge your data with the two applications Facebook and Instagram.

 A personal and ethical debate

If you refuse to accept these policies, your account will surely be disabled. There are other alternative applications such as Telegram or Signal, performing the same function, something like Coca-Cola and Pepsi. If you consider that your data are not so important and you have no accounts on social networks like Facebook or Instagram, you may leave your account as it is and continue with the service.

At the end, that is a personal decision. If you ask me for a suggestion, I would tell you to install Telegram and to learn a little about its use, so that you will not depend only on a single operator. Remember that, on internet, nothing is free and we pay for these applications through our data; these companies know what we like and what we don’t, in order to focus on advertising and they sell these data to big multinationals that, later, will send us their advertising as it is already happening  with TV or radio. What a dilemma!

By: Webmaster