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Accompanying in the nightfall of existence «My experience of accompanying my elderly and sick sisters»

Before sharing my experience in relation to this topic, I want to take in some elements that will help contextualize my words: I come from a country where a small portion of our beloved Congregation is present, the works are of missionary character and work in parish ministry, communities with few sisters, therefore, one of the reasons to come to Colombia for formation or for other reasons is to know communities with enough sisters and houses with older sisters, so that planning a trip to Medellin always includes the visit and sharing with our elderly and sick sisters.

Our Constitutions say: «They have spent their energies in the service of the Congregation and now they encourage us with their experience and witness of fidelity to the Lord» (Const. 34). And so it is, the sisters who come to this community live a concrete stage of their life with its own characteristics: reduction of the rhythm of life, having more time for things, especially prayer which, together with pain, is the daily offering to God and a way of continuing the mission in the world. They also feel helplessness, fear, pain, need for listening, companionship and help from others, they begin to depend. Although we know that it is a normal stage of life, we are not always ready to go through it, it takes us by surprise and it is a process to adapt to the changes.

I have been accompanying the community «Nuestra Señora de Montiel» in Medellín for 5 months now, where I share life with our elderly and sick sisters together with a group of sisters who form the «support team» of the community. We are immediate in charge of looking after their wellbeing.

If I am asked what does this mission mean to me? I say that, like any mission, it implies a service that I welcome with faith and good disposition; an opportunity to love, serve and grow. Although I had no work experience in this area, I have two clarities that help me, «the mission is with my sisters» and «we walk together»; these are the keys to assume with love the day to day, which is always full of novelties and feel that we are all on the way at different paces, but together as we are asked by the synodality. 

Some lessons for life:

 

  1. To live the welcome and respect

In a world where the elderly are excluded, to SEE the sisters as elders; to recognize that they came first to the Congregation, that they have traveled a path of following and service that we continue, helps me to value and respect each one in her own reality. 

  1. To express gratitude feel 

The sisters who are in the community have spent their lives and energies living their vocation and carrying out a mission, no matter if in relevant positions or humble services, they all carry the high bar «HERE IS A FOLLOWER OF JESUS, BUILDER OF THE CONGREGATION», it is a merit that no one can stop; therefore, in their presence only gratitude, much gratitude to honor their legacy.

  1. To contemplate the work of God, to welcome a blessing

Each sister is an eloquent SIGN of what God is capable of doing in each human being when she takes it on her own; sometimes, in the midst of their limitations, it is not very easy to discover «the work that God has done in them». However, their lives reflect God’s faithfulness and mercy and His saving action.

  1. To appreciate the essential 

In adulthood many physical or mental faculties are lost and it is surprising to find the essence of each sister. What she has cultivated during her life is what remains.  So you can enjoy the joyfulness, prayer, availability, strength, and active service among the many gifts that God placed in their hearts.

It is beautiful to contemplate some details of the present of the sisters that simply fills the heart with tenderness and admiration: the sense of God and their relationship with Him, no longer with numerous words or great speeches; they just know how to be, they are like little candles at the foot of the tabernacle. A great testimony is that even in their pain they look for the community and ask, «Where are they all? Bring me to them”.  Despite the fact that they no longer go out from the house, they still have a sense of helping others, especially the poor. They care for others and for those who care for them. They create bonds and share their wisdom in words of encouragement and messages that help them grow. Their sense of belonging to the Congregation is also noticeable. They ask for the sisters, they ask for their names to be repeated over and over again, they ask to be told who to pray for and, if the young women in formation come to such spaces they like to tell them their stories over and over again, offering them prayer and giving them advice; they are for them like a grandmother with her grandchildren. 

Finally, for those who read this story, the invitation is to value the elderly around you.  They have a lot to give, so let us not miss the opportunity to give them proximity, gentleness, company and help.

Sr. Bilma Freire Chamorro,  Tc

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Embracing personal reality, the reality of the brothers and sisters and of creation, is the starting point of our synodal path

With the convocation to the XXIII General Chapter, the theme around which the congregational-capitular experience revolves in its various phases began to resonate in prayer and in the spirit: “Strengthened in the Spirit, we embrace our reality and suffering humanity, advancing with hope on a synodal path”.

This theme initially locates us in what is weak in our personal reality, proposing the intuition of allowing ourselves to be strengthened by the Spirit, who calls us to re-captivate ourselves, «to recover the great desires, the marks of the wounds of our passion for Jesus and the Kingdom” (cf. José Mª. Arnaiz, SM, “From disenchantment to enchantment, passing through re-enchantment”), to return to the source that seduced us, to return to the roots that perhaps we have not cared for and watered carefully, but who are on the best ground, that of fundamental belonging: Jesus and His Kingdom.

The being and doing in the future of our congregational family is already giving us a glimpse of well-defined spaces and missions to which we are being re-sent: «To embrace our personal and community reality, and that of each Demarcation. To embrace the reality of the environment in which the suffering of our brothers and sisters and of creation is stirring».  Once these realities are recognized, we should humbly opt to take up the path together, to begin to re-create possibilities of reparation, of closeness, of mutual support, and above all of security and hope, with the conviction that in this new sending we are not alone and that we can awaken a new Pentecost: as an experience of re-enchantment, of re-birth in life for the following of Jesus in witnessing joy as disciples, stimulated and accompanied by our founders, by their experiences of conversion and commitment to the Gospel.

Francis and Clare of Assisi, Father Luis Amigó and our sisters of the first hour once again appear at our side, almost taking us by the hand to lead us to the ruins, to our vulnerabilities, not only the external ones, but those that deep inside groan and cry out for compassion. The «leper» excluded from coexistence, from harmony, from fraternity, from activity, from joy and hope, whom perhaps we have taken hidden, and not listened to, ignored, thinking that «he can stay there» and that «he can hold on a little longer». 

This reality is touched today in the family-community, and is inviting us to embrace it, to work as sisters in the closeness that led to the recognition, the embrace and kiss that transformed the personal reality of the leper and of Brother Francis, leading him then to San Damiano, to the place of encounter with the broken, disfigured, dusty, forgotten, victimized Christ in the brother and sister with whom we live. It is a slow and difficult process of recognition and identification, but an excellent way towards the experience of the reparative dynamism of our being, able to face the internal and external causes of our insecurity and proud selfishness, welcoming the possibility of finding new realities, new searches in the paschal journey of the Congregation.

To place ourselves as consecrated women, as committed lay people, with the personal reality that accompanies us today, before the extreme love that led Jesus to the cross, is the opportunity to feel the projection of that love, in the gift of brothers and sisters, with whom it is possible to unite answers, qualities, attitudes, ideals, options, strengths and to begin again putting our grain of sand in the strengthening of life and vocation, of identity and mission as Capuchin Tertiary Sisters, before the humanity that also suffers new, deep and serious vulnerabilities: «… the scourge of misery, hunger, unemployment, diseases without access to health centers, lack of schooling, child and youth labor for the survival of the family, trafficking of women and children, organ trafficking, lack of housing, displacement, war, corrupt political and even ecclesiastical administrations, slavery and injustice of all kinds, the cry of the destruction of the common home and the «throwaway culture» that affects above all women, migrants and refugees, the elderly, native peoples and people of African descent»… It hurts «the impact and consequences of the pandemic that further increases social inequalities, even compromising the food security of a large part of our population. It hurts the clamor of those who suffer because of clericalism and authoritarianism in relationships, which leads to the exclusion of brothers, lay people, especially women in the instances of discernment and decision making on the mission of the Church… it worries the «lack of prophecy and effective solidarity with the poorest and most vulnerable…» (cf. Final Message of the Ecclesial Assembly of Latin America and the Caribbean).

These multiple situations against the Kingdom continues recognizing in consecrated life, in women, sisters and disciples who are bearers of hope, assisted by the Spirit of the Lord who makes all things new; and trusts and hopes that «we will return singing from the congregational Chapter experience», offering compassionate fruits of listening, discernment, forgiveness, and a more sensitive, decisive and risky missionary attitude to project, create and open new ways of announcing in order to walk together, making a new world possible, a creation revitalized by active, simple and lesser fraternity, driven by the Franciscan-Amigonian spirituality and determined to put in common not only vulnerabilities, but possibilities, intuitions, demands, vocation, options, even contradicting ourselves, contradicting customs, projects, securities, ways of living and thinking. 

Then we will begin to live the XXIII General Chapter, as one more step on the way of restructuring our lifestyle and mission, celebrating the wedding feast, in which, if the jars of wine have been emptied and we feel the threat of the end of the feast, we can also feel the woman who has been able to say a YES without limits even in the midst of chaos; she shows us the work that frees us from sadness, hopelessness, distrust, fear that often overwhelms us: «Do whatever He tells you…» and the capitular, personal, community banquet will make our hands, wills and freedom agile, to make the empty jars overflow and allow us to taste the new wine, the best and the capacity to take up again the motivation and initial option and source of our religious profession, of our commitment in front of life in abundance for all, in front of the lament multiplied by so many marginalized brothers and sisters, so many voices, so many realities that ask us: «Go and repair my house». 

Sr. Ana Mora, Tc

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The pope stresses the value of the elderly in societies and communities: «In old age they will continue to bear fruit»

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Pope Francis has chosen the theme «In old age they will continue to bear fruit» for the Second World Day of Grandparents and the Elderly, to be celebrated on July 24, with the intention of highlighting that «they constitute a value and a gift both for society and for ecclesial communities».

The Vatican said in a statement that Pope Francis has chosen this theme because «too often» the elderly «are kept on the margins of families and of civil and ecclesial communities».

«Their life and faith experiences can help build societies aware of their roots and capable of dreaming of a more supportive future,» but also their wisdom can be heard «in the context of the synodal journey that the Church has undertaken».

«The Dicastery for the Laity, Family and Life invites parishes, dioceses, associations and ecclesial communities around the world to find ways to celebrate the Day in their own pastoral context, and for this purpose will make available the appropriate pastoral instruments,» statement concludes.

THE WORLD DAY OF GRANDPARENTS AND THE ELDERLY

We recall that, Pope Francis announced the institution of this Day after the Angelus prayer on Sunday, January 31, 2021, establishing the celebration on the fourth Sunday of July, close to the liturgical memory of Saints Joachim and Anne, grandparents of Jesus.

«Link» between generations to transmit to young people the experience of life and faith, «grandparents are often forgotten – the Pope stressed on that occasion – and we forget this richness of guarding the roots and transmitting them». Hence, the Pontiff’s decision to institute this World Day.

Source: Diocesan Service of Communication – Diocese of Mondoñedo-Ferrol

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In the school of synodality: various online courses begin in july

Fuente: Vatican News

Virtual meeting with Cardinal Grech (Archive photo) 

A series of conferences on the theology and practice of synodality has been launched to accompany the clergy and laity in the process of ecclesial renewal begun with the Synod 2021-2023. Proposed on the web in different languages, the meetings are held by speakers from around the world to offer an intercultural vision of the Church. Registration is open for the first course.

Tiziana Campisi – Vatican City

An intercontinental and intercultural project to accompany formation in theology and the practice of synodality: is the aim of the program of online courses for bishops, priests, men and women religious, lay men and women, conceived within the framework of the synodal journey that the Church is undertaking and which invites us to generate processes of conversion and reform. The courses are free of charge, offered in Spanish, English, Portuguese, French and Italian, and are given by speakers from all continents, who will offer a global and intercultural vision of the Church. In the context of the process of ecclesial renewal initiated with the Synod 2021-2023 «For a Synodal Church: communion, participation and mission» – which will culminate with the XVI Ordinary General Assembly of the Synod of Bishops in October 2023 – the initiative aims to support all the People of God called to this process of ecclesial renewal.

First meeting in July

The first course will be held in July, over three weeks, and will include lessons, conferences, reflections and the sharing of experiences on the processes of discernment and common decision-making in the Church. The Latin American Episcopal Council (CELAM), the Council of European Bishops’ Conferences (CCEE), the Federation of Asian Bishops’ Conferences (FABC), the International Union of Superiors General (UISG), the Union of Superiors General (USG), the Latin American Confederation of Religious (CLAR), the Union of European Conferences of Superiors and Major Superiors (UCESM) and the Conference of Jesuit Provincials of Latin America and the Caribbean (CPAL), are sponsoring the Massive Open Online Course (MOOC).

Registration can be done through this site: bit.ly/registersynod

Source: Vatican News

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Clar’s message in the face of political instability of our countries

The General Assembly of CLAR, gathered in Rionegro – Antioquia (Colombia) from June 1 to 4, 2022, was an opportunity to scrutinize once again the signs of the times and in them, listen to the voice of the Spirit that never ceases to open our ears so that we listen as disciples (Is 50,4). 

As Religious Life on pilgrimage today in Latin America and the Caribbean, we see with deep concern the deterioration of democracy, the social fabric and the growing political instability in several of our sister countries where fundamental freedoms are being compromised. In the framework of the Summit of the Americas, meeting in Los Angeles, we make a vehement call to political, social and economic leaders to prioritize the response to the rifts that the Covid 19 pandemic has exposed in the health, educational and social systems. 

It is unacceptable that the threat to democracy, climate change and the lack of equitable access to economic, social and political opportunities continue to disproportionately and severely affect the lives of the most vulnerable and systematically excluded people in each of our countries. Today we raise our voice of solidarity, united with the poor and the earth, who cry out more forcefully than ever for life. We also express our closeness and affection in solidarity with our religious brothers and sisters, especially in Cuba, Haiti, Nicaragua and Venezuela in these moments of extreme difficulty and insecurity. The situation of their communities of faith and life, and especially that of the persons and communities they accompany, challenges us and invites us to care for one another with the certainty that we carry a treasure in earthen vessels and in a condition of fragility (2 Cor 4:7). 

Together with you, we ask for all Religious Life, and for those who join the movement of global solidarity with the marginalized of history and with the earth: courage, inner serenity and full trust in God’s action that permanently restores social and environmental justice. We call upon Religious Life to be vigilant, watchful and supportive in prayer, communication and political and social advocacy for the most vulnerable. 

Committed and persevering witness strengthens us, and this strength inspires us with solidarity and hope. Mary, the Woman of the Dawn, continues to accompany and guide the journey of our people as she did with the first Church when it was going through the night of persecution and intolerance. With her and with the women of the Dawn, we unite in this journey in favor of life. 

Participants XXI CLAR General Assembly

 Bogota, D.C., June 9, 2022 

Source : CLAR