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My experience of life and mission In the pastoral for vocation and the youth

With the joy that characterizes this Easter season, on 25 April, we celebrate the 58th World Day of Prayer for Vocations. In our fraternities, this initiative of the Church continues throughout the whole year but on this day, the ecclesial communion unites us and reminds us, through Pope Francis’ invitation and message, that we all have the responsibility to announce, care for, invite and collaborate in the task of the Pastoral for Vocation and the Youth.

My name is Sandra Milena Velásquez Bedoya; with a special pleasure I like to share my experience as a vocational companion and promoter during 8 years. I commemorate this day being certain that each Christian is, in himself, a God’s letter to the world and I am aware that we should put all our faculties and abilities at Christ’s disposal so that we could exclaim “I have died, but Christ lives in me” (cf. Gal 2, 20); that is why I am deeply grateful for how this service has contributed to strength my option of life as a Capuchin Tertiary Sister.

Pastoral for Vocation and the Youth has been for me a school of life and has offered me the opportunity to grow in humanity and to deepen into the reasons of my call. If someone would ask me what did motivate me to carry on this service, I would say not only that it was the obedience that, through my superiors, sent me to carry it on, but I would also add that I am motivated by the deep desire that many young people might be as happy as I am.

When, in our fraternity, we pray to the Lord to send many good vocations to our Congregation, I always internally think that it doesn’t matter anymore the “number” and I am sure that when we welcome a person coming to us, either to stay or simply to discover before God her place in the world, we are already fulfilling our task and a sharing our gift.

If they asked me, what would I thank to the young women I have accompanied, I would undoubtedly say that, in this service, their confidence is the greatest gift they give to me, as well as my great responsibility to guard it with loyalty and respect. I value the story that, with a deep faith and generosity, they put into my hands and that is what I have most loved in this service: the good present within each person and the novelty and distinction she brings through her unique and genuine experience of faith.

In the early stages of formation, I deeply enjoy listening to young people speaking about their experience of God, their young first love, to which many of us are invited to return. In the young women, at the beginning of their process of discernment, there is so a great authenticity and I often regret that time is transforming this experience in something uniform and common.

This is a service that does not require only dynamism, creativity or technological skills and neither being at the forefront of today’s youth. It is true that a little of all that is required, but even more are needed wisdom, understanding and unconditional love in the art of welcoming each young person without prejudice or labels that block the possibility of a healthy, affective and effective bond that will allow them to advance in their process of discernment with freedom and conscience.

One day, evoking my own path of vocational discernment, I remembered something that my father told me. First of all, I should say that for some time, he took position against my vocational option – because I am his only daughter – but when he knew more about our lifestyle he valued it a lot. Well, on one occasion my father told me: “Sandra, I think you should make vocational videos through which the young people can really see how your life is and show them to their parents, lest they be not like me. When you told me that you wanted to be a religious I made you suffering a lot because I had a very different idea of ​​that lifestyle”.

On that day I realized that religious life had remained quite hidden to people and it needed to open its doors; therefore, together with the sisters of team of the Pastoral Vocation and the Youth of my Province, we created a weekly program called: «We, the Capuchin Tertiary Sisters, open to you the doors of our fraternities”. It is this a simple space, which every Saturday afternoon, gather many of our fraternities, young people and other persons met in our evangelizing mission and, through these videos, they express their closeness to and love for the Congregation.

As Capuchin Tertiary Sisters we have been able to respond to the concerns of young people, to make ourselves known simply and “without filters”, to get back the stories of our works and of our own vocations. Above all, we dedicate time to them, just as Pope Francis encourages us to do in his post-synodal apostolic exhortation “Christus Vivit” (cf. no. 199). Therefore, whenever we open the door of a new fraternity, once again we experiment the joy of being sisters of all, with our doors open and ready to welcome people passing through them or willing to remain with us; each young person that comes to us, grasps something of our Charisma, keeps it and propagates it so our Amigonian heart gets fill of names, presences and memories.

Finally, I like to thank because this space, belonging to us, has offered me the chance to share my personal experience and I am grateful also for the love through which the sisters support me in the mission entrusted to me. The Lord continues calling and attracting the young hearts and, together with them, we’ll get an extraordinary novelty that is a promise for our Congregation. Because of that, with hope and confidence, let us pass the “baton” allowing them to continue the race on the track we already covered. Certainly, on these tracks there are some indelible traces of many sisters who spent themselves doing well; I will personally say that the footprints along the way, offer a lot of confidence but also demands much responsibility.

Let us feel blessed with all the young women who, attracted by the Lord, his project and our particular way of life in the Church, come to our Congregation.

SANDRA MILENA VELÁSQUEZ BEDOYA, TC

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“Called to be a merciful presence in the experience of Accompaniment and care to coronavirus sick «

«If you wake up in the morning and you see that you are still alive, you have a divine mission to fulfill».

This saying that the Lord placed before my eyes at a difficult and hard time in my life, is  accompanying me every morning as a call to renew my «yes» and so, I confidently devote myself to the mission He entrusts to me, being certain that, wherever I go, He precedes me. May be that is why, given the reality of the pandemic that in a strong and hard way surprised all of us, I never was afraid, and, on the contrary, even intuitively knowing that it would not be easy, I felt happy and grateful to the Lord for the privilege to stand on the front line.

During more than 35 years caring for the sick, I have undergone through tough and difficult situations, but also through more others, full of hope and life. However, the experience of the pandemic has forced us all, not only to consider a new way to understand the life, but also to a new way of working, facing and sharing our fight in order to  improve every day the health and the life quality of our patients.  

At the beginning everything was consternating and in our hospital there was a lot of confusion. We were receiving from everywhere new instructions, steps, protocols … All that was known to us and we could dominate, transformed in a few hours and for us all, into something disconcerting, uncontrollable, invisible and, even worse, it got the «death taste and color»; that was something real because more and more anguished and frightened patients were occupying the beds, feeling that they had been torn away from their loved ones and experiencing a deep loneliness. At that first moment, when all our securities were falling down, I could experience God’s strength and the grace of abandonment and trust in Him: as well I realized that, if we were letting Him to act through us, all our energy was multiplying and becoming creative. That is how the miracle happens.

Our surgery unit, where patients enter with a specific health problem and leave restored in their health, quickly became a “Covid unit” where nothing was programmable, calculable or predictable and we could not give clear answers to the questions the sick people were asking us. This impotence forced us all, even the most distant from God, to acquire attitudes of humility, dialogue and common searching out and also  to acknowledge that, without a divine intervention, we would not be able to face this situation.

For me it has always been important to take care of the sick person as a whole and during this experience I have much more deeply and clearly perceived that «saving lives», does not consist only in healing the body, but that it is possible to “save life” also accompanying, with God’s care, mercy and tenderness, the path towards death, considered as a step and beginning of a new life that has reached its fullness.

Sometimes it is very difficult to tell the patient, through words or simply through silence, that his life is slipping away from him and that it is humanly difficult to stop this process, but however, I could experience that the truth may become a source of peace and acceptance. I remember that a patient told me: «Thank you because you are the first person who listened to me and, fearlessly, did not hide me the truth, giving me false hopes because I know that my life is ending» and another patient said to me: «Excuse me for talking to you so much, but when one feels confident, it is easier to speak and speaking contributes to reduce fear”.

If suffering is a hard experience, it is much more so when we live it alone and far from the persons that, in that moment more than in others, we need they be by our side. I do not forget the expression of emotion and gratitude on the face of a sick woman when I gave her the bag with things that her daughter brought her: although she could not see her, she said with immense joy: “My daughter has been here!” and when she took the bag it was as if she were holding her daughter in her arms. I remember also a patient who, with such a great joy and pride welcomed the buns that his son, each day before going to work, was leaving at the hospital reception for his father’s breakfast.

Accompanying loneliness has been a great challenge and I have felt myself always accompanied by God’s hand.  In the first days, when I entered into a room, a sick woman told me: «With all the protection you wear on, I see that you are all the same and I do not know who is the person entering and taking care of me».  In that instant I realized how it was important to be present beside the patient, for whom we were the only human contact, to stop and, through silence, a word, a gesture, a look, a way of touching, listening and welcoming, to offer him warmth and humanity and to create a relationship that could fill, even if only a little, his heart emptiness and claim. «There is no possibility of tenderness in accelerated rhythms, because tenderness germinates in silence and listening».  The Lord granted me to be able to «stay” next to the sick and in the middle of work, movement and sometimes rushing, I got the gift of phrases like these: «Will I see you also tomorrow?»; «I recognize you because your eyes always smile»; «You are an angel for me» or «I have been thinking about what we said yesterday» …

Along with our task of caring for and accompanying the sick, we had also to face a new way of accompanying families, especially in the strong and hard moments of farewell or mourning when we were the only human possibility of contact and it was not easy for us to control our emotions. But once again, I considered a privilege to be able to transmit, despite the pain, a lot of love and strength. In my heart I still keep the words that a daughter asked me to tell to her mother who, for several days, was living between life and death: “Tell my mother that she may leave and she will continue to take care of each one of us and of the family, from heaven”.  A few hours later, the Lord welcomed her into heaven. This is how the Lord works, in a silent, hidden and mysterious way.

Another tough situation I never thought it would be possible to live was the lack of available beds in the ICU (Intensive Care Unit) and we had to choose between two patients in order to profit better the technical care. After a long dialogue to assess the situation, we agreed to wait one more day before deciding, I strongly prayed to the Lord that, if possible, He would free us from making such a decision and a miracle took place: when, the following day, I arrived to the hospital, they informed me that one of the patients had improved and the other remained stable.

With an immense gratitude I can say that, day after day, and especially when tiredness, emotions, uncertainty and pain merge together, it has been a great gift for me, to rely on the presence, listening, understanding and unconditional support of the sisters of my community.

Many times, in tough situations of suffering and helplessness, we asked ourselves: «Where is God in all that?” But the answer to this question is not in words but in the experience of faith in God who loves us, suffers with us and manifests that Himself is accompanying us with great mercy and tenderness; he is  a God who also needs us and likes to count on us, entrusting us every day «a divine mission to fulfill.»

For everything: «Praised be my Lord!»

M.R.A.R.

(The author of this article is a nurse Capuchin Tertiary Sister, who likes to remain anonymous)

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Alternative experiences of economic auto-sustainability In the Philippines

The pandemic caused by Covid 19 has been in the world for a year and it seems that its end is still far away, although its strength and surprise have diminished. Even before the pandemic, our Congregation, immersed in the reality of the world and walking in the footsteps of “going forward” with the Church, had reconsidered the issue of an evangelical, sustainable, and solidary economy.

In St. Clare general Viceprovince, the pandemic has undoubtedly been a great opportunity “to live the prophecy of the solidarity economy based on austerity, minority, and the adequate use of goods, sharing with the poor and the demands of social justice which is lived evangelically” (cf. XXII General Chapter, Option 4).

This year there has been a process of adaptation, learning, and raising awareness in which creativity, solidarity, and fraternity have stood out, essential elements to achieve an evangelical and sustainable economy. Creativity has arisen from the need of having to re-invent life before the closure of the largest source of income that the Vice province had and this in turn has brought us:

  • Solidarity with the poor, empathy, feeling on your own skin the uncertainty of not having a job and what it entails.
  • Re-discovery of our capacities and abilities, wit, cooperation, and resilience have abounded.
  • New way of perceiving our religious life from a new way of mutual sharing with the poor.
  • Strengthening of our fraternal bonds, recognition.
  • Constant questioning for betting not only on self-sustainability but also on the ecological issue, for the positive impact that it may have at least in our small environment.
  • We have discovered the need to rethink how to help sustain small economies and opt for the “non-branded”.
  • The scope of our apostolate has expanded and in an unimagined way, all from our need.

Among the projects undertaken there are:

  1. Sale of traditional food and pastries: Pick n´ eat
  2. Total Cleaning: production of cleaning and hygienic products that includes a bio-liquid that uses the fruit skin and other natural waste that reduces the chemical impact.
  3. Increase in home gardens in different communities, for our basic consumption.
  4. Taking advantage of a small piece of land that we own, we created a small Farm where fish, chickens and pigs are raised.
  5. Candle making
  6. Online English classes and tutorials.

The photograph and videos that we provide are a graphic sample of what we have been able to do.

ÁNGELA MARÍA MARTÍNEZ SIERRA, TC

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The Woman, a gift of God to the humanity

He who, at present, is Saint John Paul II, considers central, in his writings, the role of God’s Word as an anthropological foundation of the woman dignity. In order to have a clear and coherent vision of what, in his time, the Pope said about women, it is necessary to refer to his writings and, among others, to Mulieris Dignitatem, Redemptoris Mater and the Letter to the Women.

This interest in the women is related to his predilection for Mary, the perfect woman, the mother woman, the virgin woman, the woman of anytime. For him, the women are part of the living structure of Christianity and he affirms that femininity belongs to the constitutive patrimony of the humanity and the Church itself.

He highlights that the set of feminine gifts: understanding, compassion, intuition, capacity for suffering… are manifestations of the Spirit. They are not extraordinary gifts embodied in extraordinary women, but gifts lived by simple women incarnating them in their everyday life experience.

The peasant woman, the business woman, the political woman, the mother woman, the teacher woman, the consecrated woman, the woman… has conquered in the world an influence, a weight and a power never achieved until now. Because of that, at the present time, when humanity is undergoing such a profound transformation, the women filled by the spirit of the Gospel, provide their invaluable contribution.

The decadence of values, permissiveness, relativism and generalized violence, have dimmed the horizon and indeed it is the woman that is called to  turn on the lights of hope and to be a lamp in the heart of her home, whether it be family, conventual, or social.

Throughout the centuries we come across women of faith, hope and deep love for their people, Ruth, Rebecca, Esther, Martha, Mary, Magdalena, the woman that had the privilege to receive the first embrace of the Resurrection; but the list is long, because there is also the nowadays woman who dares to raise her voice against violence, the woman that lovingly carries the burden of her home, the woman that cries before the corpse of her son vilely murdered by a violence whose background is the sin of the easy money, the abusive power of persons that have ceased to be human and have become beasts fiercer than the ravenous wolf that one day domesticated, through his prayer and humility, the meek and humble Francis of Assis.

“A woman is to be found at the center of this salvific event. The self-revelation of God, who is the inscrutable unity of the Trinity, is outlined in the Annunciation at Nazareth. «Behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus. He will be great, and will be called the Son of the Most High» – «How shall this be, since I have no husband?» – «The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the Son of God… For with God nothing will be impossible» (cf. MD 3).

The greatest recognition to the woman was made by Christ on the cross when he said: “Woman, this man is now your son” (Jn 19,26). What a greatness, what a message to the woman, the person able to devote herself without expecting anything in return. Mary, you are the prototype of a woman mother, virgin, consecrated, humble, faithful and of a deep faith.

Today, March the 8th, is the recognition day for the human being that, paradoxically, seems so fragile but is the rock upon which everyone leans and is to withstand the ferocious blows of humanity without mercy that is exploiting, enslaving and violating the sacredness of her dignity.

The woman from the east and the west, from the north and the south; the woman who, regardless of her skin color, always has a white soul, pure intentions and holding her heart in her hands offers it through the tenderness of her words and, the understanding of a gaze raised to heaven praying “Your will be done”, according to the example of Mary, the always virgin mother.

Congratulations to all the women of the world, having peace in their soul and prayer in their heart!

Hna. MARTHA GALVIS MARTÍNEZ, TC

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Lent of charity

On Saturday of the IV week in Ordinary time, we finished reading and proclaiming the Letter to the Hebrews that I have read, reflected on and meditated many times. But since “the Word of God is always alive and active…” (Heb 4,12), that day I was “more incisively” touched by this recommendation of the author of the Letter: “But don’t forget to help others and to share your possessions with them. This too is like offering a sacrifice that pleases God” (Heb 13:16).

I immediately remembered another recommendation from the Old Testament: “I do want mercy and not sacrifice, knowledge of God, more than burnt offerings” (Hos 6,6).

Thinking again about that, being Lent at hand, I told myself: “Isn’t that, perhaps, the best program to prepare myself for Easter?” And well convinced that it is so, I shared that with the sisters.

But the «short and fundamental Lent program» is not only that. Among proposals and invitations to connect online for retreats, talks and colloquia received from everywhere, there is also the Message of Pope Francis that, in this year 2021, being still the pandemic its backdrop, focuses on the theological virtues. Using his clear and engaging, stimulating and encouraging language, he describes what today, as yesterday, is essential in our Christian life. While I was reading it, I was practically underlining everything! But, in a special way the following passages:

As a preamble, he reminds us that «… The Lenten journey, like the entire pilgrimage of the Christian life, is even now illumined by the light of the resurrection, which inspires the thoughts, attitudes and decisions of the followers of Christ” and, the Popes continues “Fasting, prayer and almsgiving, as preached by Jesus (cf. Mt 6:1-18), enable and express our conversion. The path of poverty and self-denial (fasting), concern and loving care for the poor (almsgiving), and childlike dialogue with the Father (prayer) make it possible for us to live lives of sincere faith, living hope and effective charity.

The theological virtue of «faith calls us to accept the truth and testify to it before God and all our brothers and sisters”. This truth is “Christ himself that, by taking on our humanity, […] made himself the way that leads to the fullness of life”. It is because of that that “fasting, experienced as a form of self-denial, helps those who undertake it in simplicity of heart to rediscover God’s gift and to recognize that, created in his image and likeness, we find our fulfilment in him […] those who fast make themselves poor with the poor

«Hope is like living water enabling us to continue our journey”. In this time of pandemic, it may appear challenging to speak of hope, says the Pope. But no, “Lent is precisely the season of hope, when we turn back to God who patiently continues to care for his creation which we have often mistreated (cf. LS 32-33; 43-44).

During Lent, let us be more attentive to saying words of encouragement, that comfort, that strengthen, that console, that stimulate ’instead of‘ words that humble, that sadden, that irritate, that despise ’(FT 223). Through recollection and silent prayer, hope is given to us as inspiration and interior light, illuminating the challenges and choices we face in our mission”.

«Love is the highest expression of our faith and hope”. Whoever lives love, “rejoices in seeing others grow” and suffers when others are anguished, lonely, sick, homeless, despised or in need. To experience Lent with love – in the present moment – means caring for those who suffer or feel abandoned and fearful because of the Covid-19 pandemic.

Pope Francis concludes his message by recalling that “every moment of our lives is a time for believing, hoping and loving. The call to experience Lent as a journey of conversion, prayer and sharing of our goods, helps us – as communities and as individuals – to revive the faith that comes from the living Christ, the hope inspired by the breath of the Holy Spirit and the love flowing from the merciful heart of the Father”.

Continuing my reflection, I turned my gaze to Francis of Assis and Father Luis Amigó. In the writings of the Poverello in the words he addressed to “all the faithful” we read: “All who love the Lord with their whole heart, their whole soul and mind, and with their strength, and love their neighbor as themselves, and who despise the tendency in their humanity to sin, receive the Body and Blood of our Lord Jesus Christ and bring forth from within themselves fruits worthy of true penance. How happy and blessed are these men and women when they do these things, and persevere in doing them because “the Spirit of the Lord will rest upon them,” and the Lord will make “His home and dwelling place with them. They are the children of the Heavenly Father whose works they do. They are the spouses, brothers and mothers of Our Lord Jesus Christ” (LetF. 1,1).

The first thing that Francis underlines is love and he subscribes it for those who take this text as the basis of the Order of Penance, whose commitment to conversion entails renunciations as well as the distinctive of a penitential habit; a life centered on our own conversion as a path of union with God and growing love to the brothers to whom it offers the “fruits worthy of penance”, that are nothing else than the works of mercy, concrete actions of charity. We remind that they are:

CORPORAL WORKS OF MERCY
1. Feed the hungry
2. Give drink to the thirsty
3. Shelter the homeless
4. Clothe the naked
5. Visit the sick
6. Visit the imprisoners
7. Bury the dead

 

SPIRITUAL WORKS OF MERCY
1. Instruct the ignorant
2. Counsel the doubtful
3. Admonish the sinner
4. Forgive offenses
5. Comfort the afflicted
6. Patiently suffer the defects of others
7. Pray to God for the living and the dead

 

Reading them again, we focus on the work carried out by the whole Church: Diocese, Religious Orders, Institutes of Consecrated Life, Societies of Apostolic Life, Associations, Brotherhoods, NGOs, and a long etcetera. They stay on the frontiers, where the poor and people in need are.

And Father Luis, in his time language, what does he tell us about penance? In his writings there are 242 quotations about that. He, who impressed on the Capuchin Tertiary Brothers and Sisters a franciscan-capuchin character of penance, contemplation, minority and fraternity, considers that Saint Francis is the perfect model of penance for all the times (cf. OCLA 1288, 1294, 1295), that the cross, penance and mortification have their reason of being in the imitation of Christ (cf. OCLA 397, 840, 1196, 1201, 1204, 1211, 1505) and that sacrifices, as well as any other form of penance, are based on charity (cf. OCLA 1055, 1062, 1719, 1806). And our Founder lived what he says in his writings, and in the Positio Super Virtutibus, all that is declared by the witnesses in the ordinary and apostolic process of his canonization.

I invite myself and I invite you to live a Lent of charity.

Hna. MARÍA DESAMPARADOS ALEJOS MORÁN, TC

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Let’s celebrate, thanking and honouring

Next March 22nd we celebrate the World Water Day and on April 22nd the World Earth Day, two vital elements in our existence.

About them, we can find writings of any kind presenting us a wide range of concepts, realities, evaluations and challenges. In this context I ask myself: what could be said that has not yet been said? And it comes to my mind to accentuate the way we approach, contemplate and act before the water and the earth.

The Bible, in the first chapter of the book of Genesis, tells us how was formed each element of Creation, but in verses 9 and 10 of the aforementioned chapter, it speaks specifically about the earth and the waters: “God said: ‘Let the waters under heaven come together into a single mass, and let dry land appear.’ And so it was. God called the dry land «earth» and the mass of waters «seas,» and God saw that it was good”; the text ends with a very significant expression «God saw that he was good.» We find this phrase at the conclusion of each creative act and refers about the relationship between what was created and its Creator; that means that all things are good because their Creator is good and his goodness is materialized in each creature hence, everything is marked with a sell: «Be good» and that is its essence.

Similarly, in each creature we can contemplate the goodness and what is good and transport ourselves to its origin, that is to God; so it was understood by Saint Francis of Assis, world patron of ecology, who was calling all that exists “brother”, “sister”, because they come from the same hands and the same love. Also the first inhabitants of the earth understood it in this way; in their world view we find a great cultural richness showing us how they were conceiving and were relating to the environment and we discover a common denominator: between the first inhabitants (indigenous peoples) and the earth there is a relationship of symbiosis, filial union, unity and not domination. The earth is a collective resource and it has not an individual value; they generally feel that they are children of the earth and they refer to it naming it as mother.

But today, what does it remain of all that for us, inhabitants of the 21st century? We should become aware of how we look at and we relate to the environment because we are far from that fraternal gaze and we have learned to look at things, people and realities from a utilitarian and commercial perspective, to dominate, hoard and exploit, thinking selfishly and always looking for our own benefit; progress, industries, consumerism and pollution leave traces of pain and death in each living being, putting aside the value of care, respect, ecological solidarity and / or universal brotherhood.

Pope Francis in the encyclical Laudato Sí tells us that: “Fresh drinking water is an issue of primary importance, since it is indispensable for human life and for supporting terrestrial and aquatic ecosystems” (cf. LS 28). And he advises us that “in many places demand exceeds the sustainable supply, with dramatic consequences in the short and long term … large sectors of the population have no access to safe drinking water or experience droughts which impede agricultural production. Some countries have areas rich in water while others endure drastic scarcity (cf. LS 28). He also expresses his worry for “the quality of water available to the poor that causes many deaths and diseases related with the contamination” (cf. LS 29). In a similar way, another threat against the water and the earth, is the tendency to privatize this resource, turning it into a commodity subject to the laws of the market (cf LS 30).

But, let’s look again at the first inhabitants, and I am not referring to peoples no longer existing, but to those who remain stable in a more natural state and struggle to conserve their land and customs; those who live in harmony with their environment and in common territories, teach us the sacredness of nature, its relationship with the life and how to survive. They invite us to approach the water and the earth with a humble and contemplative attitude; only doing so, we may, as disciples, learn, from their richness some aspects very necessary for our daily life such as the role of the flowing water to fertilize, clean and collaborate with other elements to become food, medicine and blessing and, from the earth, the solidity, its capacity to contain, shelter, protect, provide, exchange, transform and give generously.

The pandemic generated by Covid 19 has been a wake-up call and an opportunity to reflect on the value of life, relationships, nature and healthy customs. Let us ask ourselves: how can we thank the Creator Father for the water and the earth? How can we honor his existence? Which actions should we implement for the fraternal and respectful use of these two elements?

Hna. BILMA NARCISA FREIRE CHAMORRO TC

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Joseph and his father’s heart: an entrusted mission

Joseph spent his life in Nazareth, a small Jewish village; in it, everyone was well known in the community because of his job as craftsman, farmer or because his religious and social commitments. Joseph, as well as all the young people of his time, lived his process of formation, growth and maturity that led him to realize his project of life and the fullness of love, according to the law and traditions of his Jewish culture.

God, in his inscrutable designs, since the beginning had chosen Joseph for a great mission: to be Mary’s husband and Jesus’ father during his earthly life. Therefore, endowed with faculties and special graces to fulfill his mission, he took his part in the salvation economy.

The celebration of the year of saint Joseph is a gift of the Spirit for us, Capuchin Tertiary Sisters of the Holy Family. This great Saint is a distinguished source of inspiration and a reference point that may help us to live our spirituality and charism. That is why we would like to consider some aspects of his life as an illumination for our challenges.

1. A defender and guardian of life

A crucial situation put Joseph to the test. Being engaged to Mary, a chaste young woman of deep faith, one day he came to know that she was pregnant and, in order to protect her from a shameful scandal, he planned to secretly disown her. However, after the announcement in a dream, the angel told him to “not be afraid to take Mary as his wife to his house” (Mt 1: 18-21). With the courage of a man, he accepted his mission and trusting in God he took the challenging path of faith, received and embraced Mary as his wife and, in her, the Son that she was carrying in her womb.

In another moment, the angel of the Lord revealed to Joseph the dangers threatening Jesus and Mary that were forcing them to flee to Egypt and, later, to settle in Nazareth. With discretion, humility, tenderness, fidelity and a fruitful dedication, he lived the mystery of these happenings. In silence, he suffered exclusion and persecution, he emigrated to a foreign land and, although he did not understand, he always lived according to God’s plan and, with an attitude of prayerful listening, he gave a prompt and assertive response to the different circumstances since the betrothal to the episode of Jesus in the Jerusalem Temple when he was twelve years old.

Therefore, Joseph is a reference for us in our commitment of life.

To defend, with prophetic attitude, life in all its forms, promoting the care and conservation of the «common home». To be bearers of peace and hope to the suffering brought about by violence in its different forms, situations of exclusion and the denial of human dignity.

(Cf. Final document XXII General Chapter – 1.3. Renewal actions)

2. A father who safeguards his identity integrating the reality of the daily life

When we talk about Joseph’s life in Nazareth, we talk about a normal life and of a person that accepts the history, culture, family and relationships and we discover that fidelity to daily life is fidelity to God consisting in living in the common anonymity like most of his town people, searching out what God likes, making projects and renouncing to them, always looking for God´s project and learning how to read the signs of the Kingdom in the world.

We acknowledge that Joseph was a religious man of prayer and faithful observer of God’s precepts; he initiated his son Jesus in the piety and in the religious traditions of his people. Joseph, protector of his family, discovered, by his spiritual strength, greatness of heart and intuitive capacity, the great secret of God present in each member of the family of Nazareth and the mystery of the eternal Father in their lives. Joseph, a man of fruitful silence, entered into the dynamics of contemplation and assumed with patience, amazement and respect the provident plans coming from above and became a docile instrument of God’s will.

This divine human aspect that we perceive in Joseph is a priority in our being Capuchin Tertiary Sisters; to discover that fidelity to the daily life is fidelity to God who likes us to be presence of his Kingdom. We are called to contemplate God being open to the newness of each day, to discover Him and to be his witnesses to Him through our own life, in fraternity, people, environment, creation (cf. Const. 42).

3. Protector of the family

  • Joseph was entrusted the care of the Holy Family in order to carry on God’s plan for it. In his family life he acted as a kind, tender, obedient husband and a father; he propitiated in his family the communion through love, mutual help, learning, surprises and family concerns, like in any other family of his time, not only within it but also projecting his experience to his fellow countrymen. “Once they fulfilled all that the Lord’s law ordered, they went back to Galilee, to their town of Nazareth. The child was growing, developing and becoming wiser every day; and the grace of God was with him”(Lk 2,39-40).

 In the same way, we, Capuchin Tertiary Sisters of the Holy Family, through our name, have received the legacy of apostolic work with the family and “to know and accompany the different situations and realities of the family in the environment of our mission. (Cf. Const. 61) is a priority for us.

May Saint Joseph teach and accompany us our in our response to the different demands of the mission entrusted us by Father Luis Amigó and much more now, when life confronts us in face of our society´s vulnerability and imbalance in which we are immersed.

Hna. María Elena Lopera Sierra, TC

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Suffering may open new horizons

Each year, on February 11, the Church celebrates the World Day of the Sick, instituted by Pope John Paul II in 1992. There is an evident coincidence of this date with the liturgical memoria of Our Lady of Lourdes, whom the Catholic tradition venerates as mediator of graces and also of healing miracles. Every year, on this day, the Pope addresses a message not only to Christians but to the whole world and proposes a reflection in order to revive man’s sensibility to the world of suffering and disease.

This year, the Pope’s Message for the Day of the Sick, whose theme is “A trust-based relationship to guide care for the sick” highlights the importance of personal relationships among the sick people, their family and the medical staff, because they allow them to live the experience of the disease without experimenting loneliness and abandon. On the other hand, reflecting about the meaning of suffering, the Pope refers to Job, the biblical character touched by pain in his own flesh and in his own spirit, and he underlines that, despite the abandonment and misunderstanding he suffered and the screams of anguish he lifted  to God, he realized that He had been present throughout his whole experience of pain and, once restored his health and lost goods,  he opened before him a “new horizon” of life.

Human nature cannot perceive God’s presence in pain and death. Christian religion that has permeated cultures and traditions throughout the world presents God as a good father and, although the passion, death and resurrection of Christ have revealed the salvific dimension of pain, Christian people also are reluctant to assume that God allows innocent suffering, premature death, violence and everything that endangers life. Threatened and crushed by suffering, the believer also may turn to God invoking his help and deliverance from evil, but also by shouting in anger and, even, turning away from Him.

Followers of other religions live the pain experience according to their own convictions. Some manage to maintain a passive and resigned attitude or to draw from their body and soul the positive energies that can contrast the negative ones that cause them pain, but certainly, whatever be the religious belief, pain and death are hard experiences that make tears flowing on the faces of the sick people and of their loved ones.

Tears watered also the face of Jesus in front of the mystery of his friend Lazarus’ death (cf. Jn 11,32-36) and during his prayer in the Garden of Olives, tears mentioned also by the author of the letter to the Hebrews (cf. Heb 5,7); they were a manifestation of his full humanity, teaching us that the faith and trust in God, that the Son surely possessed in the highest degree, are not a kind of “anesthetics” that reduces or cancels human suffering, but that may help man to face pain supported by the certainty that God does not abandon him. This is the «new horizon» that faith opens before the man who suffers, and that Pope Francis mentions in his Message for the Day of the Sick of this year.

Physical and moral pain play a great role in the human and spiritual formation of the man, and history reveals that all those that we consider «great» have been tested in the «furnace» of pain (cf. Wis 3,6). The physical fragility due to illness, the inner darkness that reduces the life pleasure and all the situations leading man to re-dimension a too high perception of himself, contribute to relocate himself in his truth as a human being, a creature made of clay that only the breath of God makes «great» (cf. Gen 2,7). Pain breaks the clay pot that containing the spirit of the Creator, but it can never smother this same spirit that is able to strengthen weakness (cf. 1Cor 1,25) and clothes man with new life (cf. 2Cor 13.4).

God acts and renews man through pain. The Christian faith illuminates the pain mystery through the Word of God and the example of Christ but, quite often, people outside the Christian message also get strength in the experiences of suffering and discover something positive in the lack of health or in the limitation that affects their existence .

About that I remember a child that I met during my pilgrimage to Lourdes. The little boy, confined to a wheelchair, was praying in front of the Grotto and his mother was encouraging him to pray to the Virgin begging her to to give him back the possibility of walking, running and playing ball like his friends could do but, unexpectedly, the little boy, looking around himself  and seeing other children and adults lying on their beds, replied to his mother that he was going to tell the Virgin to help rather those sick people because, at least, he could play ball using his hands. This little boy, perhaps unconsciously, gave a great testimony of how God’s grace can redirect our demands towards what is truly essential and sustain along the experience of pain.

Regardless of our faith and human maturity, God is always present when we cross the river of suffering and, discreetly as He acts when he enters into relationship with his creatures, he holds us with his hand and does not allow us to sink into the sea of ​​pain and of death. In these circumstances, discovering his presence is a profound and regenerating experience, an injection of hope and strength embracing also those who lovely accompany the sick person in his suffering.

Unfortunately, our society tends to avoid the experience of pain and all that “recalls” the existence of suffering, that, anyway is inevitable for the human being and, that is worse, even dares to get rid of the pain, intervening violently with actions that may suppress life and are not morally correct.

In his Message, Pope Francis reminds that “a society is all the more human to the degree that it cares effectively for its most frail and suffering members, in a spirit of fraternal love”; he also says that «health is a primary common good», invites those who hold political and social responsibility to give priority to the investment of resources for the care of sick people and encourages everyone to walk towards this goal, making sure that no one is left alone, excluded or abandoned.

In agreement with the social encyclical “Fratelli tutti”, the World Day of the Sick celebrated this year, in the midst of the pandemic, encourages men of good will to strengthen attitudes of closeness to the most fragile people, being for them, as the Good Samaritan, «a very valuable balm, which provides support and comfort» and exhorts us to look up at God so that, like Job, we can discover his face manifested in the fragility of those who suffer. This will rekindle the strength and hope of a wounded humanity.

Sr. Cecilia Pasquini TC

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How to discover the truth bustling inside my sister

On January the 14th, the magazine “Vida Religiosa” published an article by Dolores Aleixandre, whose title was “Composure” that, probably, is not alien to us and can help us to think if we really live this same reality in our own person and in our communities. We have just celebrated the Day of Consecrated Life on February the 2nd and we consider interesting to facilitate this reflection in our webpage. Let us fully live the mutual accompaniment we are working on in our «Growth and Transformation» Project; undoubtedly that will make easier for us the effort to intuit what is happening in the depth of the hearts of those who live by our side, beyond appearances, the fulfillment of norms and that «composure» about which the author refers. Below it is Dolores Aleixandre who speaks:

«I went with my community to a recollection day to elaborate the community project of the year and in the outskirts of the town where we were, there was a huge fallen aspen next to the road. Probably it had fallen the day before because its branches were still full of green leaves, although the trunk was hollow and the roots were exposed. This image came to my when I heard a comment about the departure of a young sister: «And her community was surprised, because they had noticed nothing that would suggest that she was in crisis». The association with the fallen tree seems obvious: this young religious looked like a hollow trunk that since it was not getting sap from its roots, had no consistency and collapsed. And so we think that there is nothing more to do.

Did we ask ourselves whether there were other possible but more uncomfortable explanations? We could ask ourselves, for example, if the empty trunk would not be her community, so myopic that it could not detect any alarm signal in one of its members.  Another possible variant: we should be able to detect in us the symptoms of that composure (today it would be the «posture») always lurking in consecrated life: an ability generated under the protection of structures that allows us to behave externally with correctness, according to «agreed codes» acquired habits, fulfilled schedules and a few stereotypical phrases. A plastic life, adapted and well organized  life the stretched ribbon marking the page of Vespers of the second week. And that is said «from the outside». But inside, perhaps a parallel world bustles: what we really think, feel and desire, hidden in the most secret part of the heart until the day when it «comes out of the closet» and others can see it. That is such a «usual» possibility that the New Testament uses the adjective dipsichós, «person of two minds», double, divided (James 1,8).

This threat is accentuated in the stage we are living, amid many processes of restructuration, fusions and readjustments we are carrying on. Immersed in this turmoil, an essential question arises: what is actually happening with the restructured, reconfigured, united, grouped, fused or re-justified subjects that we are? In all this process, the most important is that each one receive the sap of life and significance so necessary to live.

In Zacchaeus’ encounter with Jesus, we can discover a kind of double appears: «Lord, I will give to the poor half of my goods…». At the beginning of the year each one could ask himself what he is doing with that other reserved “half». Because, throughout our lives, we have surely been handing over keeping an edifying composure, half of what we are and we own but let us ask ourselves whether, there be any other “half” we still hide in the deepest of ourselves.

The presence of the Guest “sneaking” into our house, makes possible, for us, to confidently welcome the «agents of diminution» knocking at our door and getting down through our roof. As soon as we consent, they will undertake the task of clearing the corners where we take refuge, and they will urge us to hand over that “other half” we so eagerly try to retain.

Let us hope to decide throwing it out the window, together with it the remains of so much deceptive and silly composure ».

(Translated from: Dolores Aleixandre –  Magazine “Vida Religiosa”, 14 of january 2021)

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Whatsapp What will change about its new privacy terms

Changes in Whatsapp this is what really happens with your data.  What will change about its new privacy terms and whom will affect?

 Actually, everything is quite simple, but the interest to attract your attention may cause, in certain web sites, some exaggerations and a little bit of confusion.

And because of that, I will try to explain you everything, including the WhatsApp changing aspects, what that means for its users, and why, if you live in Europe, you don’t have to worry about it. So, if that concerns you or you have any questions about this matter, your mind will keep quite.

Which are the changes in the new privacy policies

In 2014, Facebook bought WhatsApp for $ 16 billion. During the acquisition process, when it received the permits from the European Commission, Facebook ensured that it did not have a reliable and automatic way to link the WhatsApp and Facebook accounts of their users. However, once the operation was completed, they announced that they would begin to combine these data and because of that, the European Union accused them of providing misleading information.

 

Temporary WhatsApp messages: what they are, their limits and how to use them

The new privacy policy is a new step in this direction: the data of WhatsApp users will be shared with the other Facebook or Instagram services. This is a mandatory change and it means that its users must accept this condition if they want to continue using WhatsApp. If they don’t accept, they won’t be able to use the app.

But there is an important matter: this change does not apply to users belonging to the European Union. That is due to the European data protection regulation, (EU-GDPR) that forbids Facebook to share the WhatsApp data with other companies, to its own profit.

Therefore, if you live in Spain, France, Italy or any other country, member of the European Union, these changes will not affect you; even if you accept them, Facebook will not share your data with the rest of the applications of its company.

Sharing this data, Facebook aims to have more complete profiles of all its users, by unifying the information they provided (and also the information they not provide but it somehow collects) through all the applications belonging to a single profile. That will help WhatsApp to better target its advertising campaigns, to the personal likings of its users and so to earn more money through a more effective advertising.

Why that does not affect European countries?

As I have told you, in 2016 Facebook began to combine some data of its WhatsApp users, specifically their telephone numbers, with the rest of the companies. That prompted the authorities to initiate an investigation, and Facebook temporarily cancelled such a policy that, however, is still effective today.

In fact, WhatsApp has a kind of sub-company created only for European users, so that, here, users don’t have to share contents. The app used worldwide belongs to the company WhatsApp LLC, while in Europe it belongs to the company WhatsApp Ireland Limited. Since the companies are distinct, the conditions and agreements offered to European users are approved by the European Commission and are different from those offered in the rest of the world.

But what happens in America and other continents?

It is necessary to understand that data privacy is an issue that Europe has been working on during several years; sometimes we do not give the true importance to our data on internet and that cause a certain misunderstandings about the application.

First of all, the arrogance with our personal data and its daring in the way of using them (the company itself or its partners), is a legacy of Facebook’s habit. So it is not surprising that people put up that Facebook changed WhatsApp policies in a fraudulent way.

Second, people have understood that privacy policies are confused and they don’t really have the “power” to do something, obliging companies to collect less data.

Chats are still safe for everyone

One thing that should be clear for you is that Facebook cannot read what you write in your chats, so that, in no case and in no place, the conversations content will be sent to them. And it is so because WhatsApp uses what is known as end-to-end encryption.

Facebook cannot see the content of messages or phone calls because WhatsApp communications are encrypted. Facebook also says that it does not keep logs about people you contact through WhatsApp, and that WhatsApp contacts are not shared through Facebook.

WhatsApp has many positive aspects. It is easy to use and the communication is secure but it is true that WhatsApp is Facebook and we should remember that many people do not trust in Facebook.

There are alternatives apps, such as Telegram and Signal that recently have received a large number of new users.

It seems that the understanding of what happens with our digital data, require an advanced training in computer science and a law degree. And Facebook, a company owning a lot of money and a stock value of more than $ 700 billion, did not or could not explain what was happening in such a manner that people could understand it.

If you do not have a Facebook or Instagram account, your WhatsApp will continue working the same; perhaps in the future they will add some advertising on their platform, but if you live outside Europe, the new privacy policy will surely merge your data with the two applications Facebook and Instagram.

 A personal and ethical debate

If you refuse to accept these policies, your account will surely be disabled. There are other alternative applications such as Telegram or Signal, performing the same function, something like Coca-Cola and Pepsi. If you consider that your data are not so important and you have no accounts on social networks like Facebook or Instagram, you may leave your account as it is and continue with the service.

At the end, that is a personal decision. If you ask me for a suggestion, I would tell you to install Telegram and to learn a little about its use, so that you will not depend only on a single operator. Remember that, on internet, nothing is free and we pay for these applications through our data; these companies know what we like and what we don’t, in order to focus on advertising and they sell these data to big multinationals that, later, will send us their advertising as it is already happening  with TV or radio. What a dilemma!

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